Friday, March 13, 2009

The Bridge to Adoption

I seem to be asking myself this question daily.

Why is the bridge from treatment to adopiton so hard to cross???

And I don't know the answer.

I can't seem to pinpoint it with others either.

But it's a scary bridge to cross for the first time.

I'll keep searching.......

Love much,
xob

1 comment:

Just a waiting Mommy said...

Someone once explained it to me like this: The drive to reproduce is a Darwinian force that is so strong, it takes over everything else. I found this to be helpful in understanding for myself why not having a biological child is so emotionally painful when my mind knows the truth: that all I really want is to be a parent. It also helps explain why all those "fertile" people keep having babies yet they tell me how wonderful they think adoption is. It's wonderful for someone else (not them) I guess.