I seem to be asking myself this question daily.
Why is the bridge from treatment to adopiton so hard to cross???
And I don't know the answer.
I can't seem to pinpoint it with others either.
But it's a scary bridge to cross for the first time.
I'll keep searching.......
Love much,
xob
Friday, March 13, 2009
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Someone once explained it to me like this: The drive to reproduce is a Darwinian force that is so strong, it takes over everything else. I found this to be helpful in understanding for myself why not having a biological child is so emotionally painful when my mind knows the truth: that all I really want is to be a parent. It also helps explain why all those "fertile" people keep having babies yet they tell me how wonderful they think adoption is. It's wonderful for someone else (not them) I guess.
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